Wednesday, December 25, 2013

CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS...........

Well, it is here...our celebration of the birth of Jesus....did you sing "Happy Birthday"?

I went to our "midnight" Mass at 10:30 (St. James, Menomonee Falls).  WONDERFUL celebration of the birth of the Son of God.  We had good participation.  Great music.  Before Mass we had two people dressed in black PROCLAIM by heart readings from Isaiah...touching.  We also had been encouraged to bring bells to participate in ringing at different times.  Great!

I left feeling I had really celebrated.

I have some reflections on my facebook page...so I will refrain from repeating myself.

I pray you had a WONDERFUL CHRISTMAS DAY.  I pray that this holy season will bring you many blessings....and that they spill over into 2014. 

Sunday, December 22, 2013

We trust....with faith

Am I on a roll or what?   I actually have TIME....it is snowing, dangerous driving, so I cannot go to Mass til later.  GIFT!  Time...

When I think of Joseph, I am blown away, as they say.  I just have to admire his faith, his trust, his acceptance....even when he did not understand....the special young girl...pregnant!  It could not be...and it was not he....but he accepted it....was compassionate...and took her in.

Is it not like that in our lives sometimes...for me it was when I was asked to leave my loved ministry at Sacred Heart School of Theology to go to the Dominican Republic.

WE trust the divine presence.  We respond with faith....and it turns out to be gift.

Mother Teresa

From her book "A Simple Path":  It is not how much you do but how much love you put into the doing and the sharing with others that is important."

ADVENT BLESSINGS......

"Echo the Yes"

I must be "up-front".  The title and what I will share is from Dec 20, "Give Us This Day".  It is just what the dr. ordered....at least it was for me when I read and reflected on it.  Then I decided I MUST share it.

Caryll Houselander says that Mary said her YES for the human race...and so we each are to echo that YES in our own lives.

"The surrender that is asked of us includes complete and absolute trust...like Our Lady's surrender, without condition and without reservation...we shall not be asked to become extraordinary or set apart...we shall be asked to give our flesh and blood, our daily life--our thoughts, our service to one another, our affections and loves, our words, our intellect, our waking, working and sleeping, our ordinary human joys and sorrows--to God.

To surrender all that we are, as we are, to the Spirit of Love in order that our lives may bear Christ into the world--that is what we shall be asked."

What a challenge!  But how exciting!  We, like Mary, are called to be pregnant with the Savior and bear him, birth him, bring him, make him present in my home, my community, my place of work....wherever I am. 

WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Let's do it!

Tuesday, December 17, 2013

Family Tree

Today we had the reading from Matthew of the geneology of Jesus.  You remember so and so "begot" so and so....and on to name 42, I believe.

If we want to feel ok and be at peace with our mixed-up, dysfunctional family, just review or study Jesus' dysfunctional family tree.

Is it not consoling that Jesus would choose real "human" fallible and quite the characters-some of them?  He does not come from a "perfect" background. 

James Wallace, CSsR, in his reflection in "Give Us This Day" writes  "Matthew's listing links Jesus with the world of Chosen People Israel and the world of the Gentiles, reminding us he came for all.  His family, like most families, was a mess, a mix of saints and sinners, brokenness and fidelity, shame and glory.  Into this clan came the savior, as he continues to come, yesterday, today, and always."

Are you keeping alert these Advent days to this coming?

Saturday, December 14, 2013

Longing...........

Truly, I have been longing to come to my blog...but TIME has been really problematic for me.  And now I had a cancellation and zoom....I came to  chat...even if it is one-sided!

I hope your Advent has been truly one of quiet, reflection and giving.  In the two parishes I frequent, they have the giving tree.  The people have been most giving.  Today at St. James, where I am the coordinator of  Adult Ministry, the needy from all around the area stood in line...and it WAS a looonnngg line to "shop" for toys and clothes for their children.  All donated by the "haves"---which is WONDERFUL.  Sharing of their "riches".

We have a pre-school just up the street from St. James.  All the tots, trotted over yesterday holding in front of them a plastic bag with a toy they were giving for the children who would not have had one.  It was a most touching sight....I got  lump in my throat....then they sang carosl for us!  They were darling!

How have you shared the Christmas spirit of love, joy, peace, hope?  You have two Advent weeks.....and then LET"S KEEP SHARING.  It need not be costly.  We CAN do it.  I dare you!

And....are you being counter-culture?  No "happy holidays" PLEASE!  What is Christmas about?  We would have none of this if it had not been for the birth of Jesus....the coming of our Savior.  PLEASE!  PLEASE!  Show your "smarts" by wishing everyone you meet....familiar or stranger...a MERRYCHRISTMAS!

I pray that this coming Advent week is a week of tranquility and hope for you.

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Is 25:6-7

Today's reading is from Isaiah.  The title of the reflection from "Daybreaks "is "On this mountain".

I'd like to share with you the part that I thought was quite meaningful .....

"Though we might profess that we believe God is in our midst, too often we fail to be comforted by this thought or enriched by it.  Why is that?  Could it be that we really do not recognize God's presence?  Are we expecting something as monumental as a mountain?  Do we fail to realize that God often comforts us through the goodness of others, that God enriches us through the generosity of the people in our lives?  If they comfort and enrich us, might it be that God works through us to comfort and enrich them?  We can all certainly work for peace in this way."

This challenges me to continue to find God in the many that pass through my day....and also challenges me to be a "comforter" and an "enricher"....and thus a "peace-bringer". 

Perhaps this beautiful season of Advent is just the right time to.....

ADVENT BLESSINGS.......

Monday, December 2, 2013

Advent....my favorite liturgical season!

I love Advent...maybe because it's short!  I like the quiet, the reflective, the slowing down that is part of Advent. 

I just read that: although we continue to celebrate Advent as a season, it is more than that.  Advent is a way of life, lived in watchfulness for the God who comes...not just at Christmas, as we all know, but EVERY DAY in myriad ways, sometimes wonderful, sometimes in painful disguises.  So we wait, not passively, but ACTIVELY!  What a wonderful truth!

I wish this reflective quiet.  I encourage you to take time each day to find a quiet place, light a candle and just sit.  Close your eyes.  Quiet yourself, relax your body.  And just "be still and know that I am God."

Wednesday, November 27, 2013

Youth conference

I had the privilege of participating in the national Catholic Youth Conference in Indianapolis this past week.  What an experience: 25,000 high school youth from 50 states!

It was a couple days of enthusiasm, life, activities, creativity.  I never heard a word of complaint, bad language, or saw any type of negativity.  Where is the media to report all this positive behavior and energy?  Usually we hear only the negative....unfortunately.

These are our future Church and it is wonderful!  We had a "chapel".  I never went in there once that there was not a "crowd" in prayer, personal prayer.  I was totally blown away, as they say, at the LOOONNNGGG lines to receive the sacrament of reconciliation.  Our prayer services and Mass in the Colts's stadium was wonderful....praying and singing wholeheartedly.  The music for me, an "old lady" was a bit LOUD, but it is where our young are. Another surprising thing for me was the silence at prayer....when silence was called for....INSTANT silence was their response.  Truly amazing for me!

Wonderful! Amazing!  Promising! I hope and pray that all these attitudes and behaviors are continued and repeated at their local parishes...for the renewal of the life of our Church.  They can do it...together!  I wish them the very best.

GO! Future Church! GO!  With the Lord's blessings!

Monday, November 18, 2013

Grateful and Helpful....

My prayer has been gratitude for the safety from the recent storms.  We are so fortunate...but then what?  What action(s) can I attach to my gratitude?  I will not enumerate them....you can do that for yourself and THEN follow through.

Perhaps the reflection from Nov 7th is somewhat in this area..."As Christians, we recognize those precious minutes of days or years or decades are on loan from the Lord to be used for is glory and to share his Good News.  We do that in the way we reflect Christ to our family, friends and total strangers.  Every interaction presents an opportunity--and a choice:  To comfort or to afflict?  to love or to ignore?  To heal or to injure?  To accept or to judge.  We know what God desires.  The way we use that gift of time with the rest of humanity is up to us, knowing that ultimately we will be called to account for our choice."  (From "Living Faith" Oct.Nov.Dec. 2013)

BLESSINGS......

Wednesday, November 13, 2013

Special day...today!

Feast of Mother Cabrini...the first American saint!  She was from Italy, but came to the US where she established many places of ministry for the poor Italian immigrants....actually the Pope requested she come to the US....she really wanted to go to China as a missionary.  The Pope said she was needed by the Italian immigrants...and indeed she was.  The ministries she established flourished as did the order of sisters she founded:  the sisters of mercy.

Great example for us!

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Brrrrr!

Would you believe it will freeze tonight?!  I am not ready for this.  We still have such beautiful Autumn golds and reds.  Being from the Land of Enchantment....after ALL my years up here, I am still not used to the cold....and soon, I presume, the "white stuff"!

Yet it is all beautiful in its own way...and am always awed by God's creativity.  I continue to be amazed at God's power and beauty reflected all around me...Lord, keep me awed!

Where do you experience the beauty, the power, the wonder of your Creator? 

Wednesday, October 30, 2013

"...as a thief in the night..."

...that is how death came to our sister, Margrit...when she least expected it.  And we were all in shock!  Painful shock!  Three days later...the same. Sister Roseann called home...just days apart.

The first thought after I "de-numbed" was: why is the Lord picking on us?  No matter when or how death touches us, it is not easy to go through it all.  Sometimes it is difficult to accept.  Sometimes it us difficult to understand why.  Yet we know the Lord does know best.  The Lord sees the bigger picture, the whole picture.

This week we will celebrate All Saints day and All Souls day....remembering all our family members, friends, peers, people with whom we have worked or journeyed who have gone ahead of us.  Our intercessors.  Our friends whom we should not let "rest in peace" but keep them busy helping us.  They can "run" to the Lord with our needs...yes, and even our wants!  Remember they have nothing to do but praise God and "flit" around in eternal joy!   

Sunday, October 20, 2013

Autumn Beauty!

I can't make up my mind if I like Autumn or Spring better.  I love the colors of Autumn and I like the brightness and freshness of Spring.  I guess I need not decide.

We have taken two Sundays to go explore, admire, and take in the beauty of God's creative power. It is positively amazing.  Now, however, the colors are beginning to wane and the trees beginning to bare.  Readying for letting go, the dying....which is such a reality in life.  A time of reflection as well.

In terms of my ministry....all my research and preparation for my presentations is over, as are my presentations....and the Lord was with me.  The Spirit worked wonders.  My presentations went well.  I prayed that I would present what the "hearers" needed to hear.

Now I can get acquainted with my office!  Dig through files and shelves....and discover.

The other magnificent thing I did yesterday....went to hear the very popular and wonderful speaker: Matthew Kelly.  If you have an opportunity to hear him...GO!!!!  He is wonderful...an interesting Australian accent that keep you alert.  If you can get a hold of any of his CD's....get them.  If you have access to his books...get them as well.  You will not regret it.  In fact you can get some FREE!  Go to DynamicCatholic.com.

AUTUMN BLESSINGS....... 

Saturday, October 12, 2013

Unbelief!

My unbelief:  this is Saturday afternoon and I AM HOME!

I have been busy, busy with preparation of presentations, doing the presentations, going to class, hosting, welcoming, cleaning up after the numerous sessions....etc., etc., etc....as the song goes!

This morning I had a meeting which ended at noon....then after all the "afters" I returned home and have been "cleaning out" all those added-up emails....so right now I am not seeing straight, but do feel pretty good...but I can hardly wait to close off my laptop....

So...busy....reminds me of Martha and Mary...and, Lord, Lord, at times I am such a Martha....but must say there is more of a Mary to me today than used to be.  I need more of her.  How about you?

I'm going downstairs, sitting on the couch and doing NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  

Saturday, October 5, 2013

Celebrations...

What a rich week!  My birthday, feast of the Little Flower, feast of the Guardian Angels, feast of St. Francis of Assisi!  How blessed we are!

St Therese....who gave us the "little way"--and we can all ascribe to that.
Guardian Angels....our protectors, our "inspirers", our intercessors, our companions.
St Francis...our "peace" patron, our example of rebuilding our church, our teacher of love and respect of our earth and nature...

What challenges we have to remember and imitate these helpers!

Monday, September 30, 2013

My Life Day

Tomorrow, October 1st is my SPECIAL DAY....my BIRTHDAY!  I LOVE birthdays!  I know it does mean that we get OLDER, but I prefer that to the other option!!!

We started celebrating already.  At work, St. James parish, Menomonee Falls, we had cake, actually two cakes as there were three of us celebrating.  And now, just a bit ago, one of my sisters came over with some bakery she baked and a card.

And, of course, I have been receiving cards and  phone calls....which means people are having wonderful thoughts...thinking of me...and wishing me "peace and all good"...for which I am GREATLY GRATEFUL.

And at prayer this morning I was going through my past year, thanking the Lord for the numerous  events where I saw and felt the Lord's presence and intervention in my days.  As I reflect, I notice that I have more trust than I used to have.  Perhaps that comes with age...since I am getting up there, whatever "up there" means....not heaven, yet, Lord!  

Or it may mean that I am more aware of God's presence and working in my dailyness.  Whatever it is, I am glad.  I pray that I continue to be open to God's action in my comings and goings, and do see God's loving and compassionate hands holding me.

I also spent some time with my mother....

So if you read this on OCTOBER 1, be sure to send me a prayer!

AUTUMN BLESSINGS TO YOU!

Saturday, September 21, 2013

Matthew the tax collector

Today we celebrate this great evangelist...follower of Jesus.  I still never cease to be amazed how this hated man....because of what he did...collect taxes...and the deceit that was involved with that job...how when Jesus comes by and calls him to "FOLLOW ME"---the Scripture says that Matthew actually LEFT his post (and the money he had collected that day???) and FOLLOWED JESUS!!!!  How truly marvelous!

What kind of a person was Jesus?  Talk about charisma!  That a simple invitation to join him was sufficient for Matthew to leave his post and "follow" Jesus.  You recall that the same thing happened to the brothers who were out fishing with their father....cleaning the nets....getting ready to fish.  Jesus comes by, non-chalantly (I imagine) invites the two brothers to "FOLLOW ME"...they not only left their nets, but their father....and went off after Jesus!!!

I am looking forward to eternity to check them out.  What a call!  What a caller! 

Compare Matthew and the two brothers to us!!!  I, for one, do not compare.  My response to the Lord's invitation to "whatever" takes me time.  I have to "discern".  I have to turn it over and over.  Answer all the ?'s.

How about you?  How are you at responding to the Lord's daily calls?  Or suppose, more seriously, the Lord is calling you to the consecrated life....oh gracious! NOT ME!!!  may be your first response...and my question to you is:  Why not you?  Look at who and what Matthew was...and Jesus chose HIM!!!  Do not belittle yourself....you are worth it!

Sunday, September 15, 2013

Feast of the Sorrowful Mother

Yes, today is a special day for us: the SISTERS OF THE SORROWFUL MOTHER.  Any of you (SSM's) who visit my blog today; HAPPY...HAPPY FEASTDAY.  I HOPE YOUR DAY IS MARVELOUSLY BLESSED!

SSM's.  Who are we?  I would like you to meet us, but rather than my telling you, I encourage you to google us or visit www.sistersofthesorrowfulmotherorg.  You can also find us on www.faceook.com/sistersofthesorrowfulmother and on www.youtube.com/ssmsisters and www.flickr.com/photos/ssmsisters/sets.  Wow!  I'm impressed.  And if you google us, you will find MORE!  Happy googling!

One of our prayers is the Stabat Mater, the "At the cross her station keeping" prayer.  You may want to google that too.  It is a bit lengthy, but it is a prayer to Mary standing under the cross.

You know, I think we often look at Mary as a statue, lifeless, HOLY, sinless.  We forget that she was truly human, with feelings, ups and downs like us....and a mother, like some of our mothers today, whose son was brutally killed....and she accompanied him to the bitter end.  And she accompanies us as well in our struggles and deaths.  What a mom!

Tuesday, September 10, 2013

Five days old....

Yes, I am five days old....in my new ministry.  I am Coordinator of Adult Ministry at St. James Parish in Menomonee Fall, WI.  From my few days' experience and from what others say, St. James is a wonderful parish.

Staff has been most welcoming, encouraging and helpful to me as I settle in and find my way around.

I am very fussy about liturgy, Mass, so before I signed on the dotted line, I went to Mass one Sunday to check it out.  It was wonderful:  Fr. Mike was a prayerful presider, really able to have the congregation join in the prayer and song  His homily met my expectations.  I loved the music, piano, guitar, and a wind instrument.  I was drawn and inspired to pray....as it should be.

I told Fr Mike he got an A+++++.

So, I am grateful to the Lord for connecting me with this parish.  I am grateful to the people who interviewed me and decided on me.  In my search I had placed it totally in the hands of the Lord.  I knew, I trusted, GOd had a plan....and it would happen....and it happily did.

Now comes the WORK!!!!  And I trust the Holy Spirit and all my buddies UP THERE!

Monday, September 2, 2013

Mini-vacation

I did not take time to visit family in Colorado this year, which I considered "vacation".  Therefore, I decided I DID need some fun time, some away time, some time to do something different. 

SOOOOO, one of my sister friends and I decided to go to Door County, which is a peninsula north of Milwaukee....tourist attraction.  There are lots of little towns all along the beach on both the east side and the west side.

We decided to go up the west side where there seemed to be more towns.  Since it is the end of summer, we were fortunate not to have wall-to-wall tourists.  Less fortunate is that there is little to do other than walk along the streets and SHOP....lots of shops with unique stuff. 

Since I am not a shopper or a collector, I was quickly finished with the shops!  Next was to sit along the street and people watch or the best: go to the lake and sit and admire and take in the beauty of the water and watch the sail boats and other boats.  This I enjoyed.

The other fun thing we did was take a boat ride and a trolley ride....learned lots about the history of the area.

Enjoying God's wonders of nature...and the wonders of people was truly a good experience.

Now tomorrow I begin my new ministry at St. James parish in Menomonee Falls, Wi.  Am looking forward to it....yet a little nervous...I need to trust! 

Monday, August 19, 2013

The narrow gate....

Sunday's Gospel tells us to enter by way of the narrow gate.  There are many interpretations of this passage, I'm sure, but I just heard one that really makes a lot of sense to me....perhaps because I need to DO it.

The idea was that to enter the gate...I must first be unencumbered....not a lot of baggage, or that "stuff" will burden me, will "widen" me so that I do not "fit" through the gate that is narrow.

So the message is GET RID OF YOUR BAGGAGE!  The variety of baggage!  Whatever is getting in the way.

Can you identify your baggage?  Good luck...that's the first step.

Wednesday, August 7, 2013

Happy anniversary to me!

How unique!  I'm wishing myself a happy anniversary....why not?  It makes me happy to think that on the 3rd I recalled 61 years ago I left my little town of Villanueva, NM...left home, friends, relatives, and my doggie, Waggie.

On the 5th, I recalled my seeing 6618 North Teutonia, Milwaukee for the first time.

Why was I celebrating these events.  Well, I recall the 3rd, my leaving home, as not being that jubilant.  There were lots of tears with those good-byes.  Never been away from home.  Going to an unknown land....and I was quite young!!!

Arriving at 6618, Sisters of the Sorrowful Mother motherhouse, a huge 4-story red brick building.  Strange.  Then to discover that the sisters were on retreat...8-days of silence.  Fortunately, the young ones in formation were NOT on retreat.

What were this leaving and arriving about?  I was coming to begin my preparation, my formation, to become a sister.

And that as 61 years ago....how time flies, really.  It does not seem that long ago.  I am grateful to the Lord, to my many companions in formation and to the many sisters who walked with me, supported me in good times and in sad times, these 61 years.  

"For all that has been GRACIAS.  For all that will be YES.

Friday, August 2, 2013

Move....

I think I shared that I moved back to the place from which I moved a year and a half ago.  Volley ball!  I think I also shared with you that I have been feeling like a volley ball since my assignment to the Dominican Republic a few years back.

The other day I was chatting with the Lord and I said:  I hope you are enjoying playing volley ball with me!!!"

Moves...a ministry, finally...position closed, so no ministry...search and search and search....a real possibility, please God....asked to move AGAIN!!!!  So you see why I feel like a volley ball.

The surprising thing is that I am really not all that on edge and upset about this.  In my "younger" days, I would have been worried, on edge, concerned, wanting it all to happen yesterday.  I think AGE has something to do with this attitude.  So it IS wonderful to be OLDER!  (I have a problem with all the hoooplaaa re staying young.)

 I am grateful to my Brother Companion for the calm hope I am experiencing.  I truly believe that God has something in the Divine Sleeve for me....where and what for me...and I will connect.  In this I trust.

So stay tuned....

SUMMER BLESSINGS.....

Thursday, July 25, 2013

Mary and Martha

The story of the busy Martha and the relaxed Mary, which we had on Sunday, is one of my favorites.  Two sisters of opposite personalities and true to who they are.

Which one are you?  A Martha of a Mary?  Or are we a little of both?  I am more a Martha: an action  person.  However as I age, I note that I have much of a Mary...taking time for contemplation, for quiet, accepting life as the Lord plans it...difficult as it can be. 

I'd like to share from "The Word Among Us".  Be a Mary.  "Sit with him and let him speak to you: about his love for you.  Open your heart to him without fear of what will follow.  Whatever your shortcomings, failings and weaknesses, he loves, loves, loves you! He delights in giving himself to everyone who is ready tor receive it.  You can sit, as Mary did, unashamed and truthful about your life and soak up the Father's love for you."

"This story of Martha and Mary shows us that experiencing God's love is the most healing empowering, inspiring thing we an do.  Better than any good work, and more desirable to the Lord, is the flow of love and affection, of knowing and being known, between him and you..  YEs, he seesyour deepest sins, but he looks deeper still.  He knows your desires for holiness, purity, and innocence.  He knows the "real you" ...the you that is willing to swim out of the current anything that pulls you away from him....knowing God's love can help you overcome failure...build strength where you are weak..."

What encouraging words...I wish you peace and quiet at the Lord's feet.

Sunday, July 7, 2013

Need prayers

Off to retreat....appreciate prayers so the Spirit finds me....and I am OPEN!

SUMMER BLESSINGS......

Monday, July 1, 2013

Priorities.........

What a beautiful day we are enjoying today.....what GIFT!  A rest from all the rainy, overcast days we had.  So gratitude is in order....GRACIAS, gracious God!

I have been wanting to share this for a bit, but somehow, just could not get through with this "blogging"....finally today I was able to get in.

A few weeks ago we had the Gospel asking what our priorities are.  What exactly is important to me?  What comes first?  To what do I give my prime time?  My efforts?

I'm sure we have looked at this issue more than once.  The homilist shared a quote from someone who had a way to determine just what was important in the dailyness of life. 

The tell-tale was in our calendars and in our checkbooks!

Sounds logical?  I believe so.  Check it out!

BLESSINGS......   

Sunday, June 16, 2013

Trust....

Trust has not always been my strong virtue, but it has become a little stronger as I have aged.  That is good because I am being called to TRUST AGAIN!

Trust that the Lord knows BEST....trust that the Lord is in the driver's seat, and so knows WHERE we both are going.

As of last Tuesday at the parish Finance Committee my position was eliminated.  The parish is in dire financial status, so they looked at the figures and "Poof?" eliminate the Adult Faith Formation and RCIA ministries.  I am finding it very difficult to understand how this ministry, basic to the faith life of the parish can just be done away with.  But that is from my perspective...but I cannot but question PRIORITIES.

Yet, I am called to let go and let God!  I believe firmly that the Lord has something I am being called to do, which will be revealed in due time, God's time, not my time...which is last Wednesday!

I have always believed that NOTHING HAPPENS BY ACCIDENT, BUT BY GODCIDENT.  I need to be open, to be patient, and trust that "all things work together unto good"...I heard/read that somewhere!

I would appreciate a little prayer now and then that I connect with whatever it is God calls me to next.

BLESSINGS.......    

Thursday, June 6, 2013

Spring?????

This is the 6th day of JUNE!  We should be enjoying beautiful sunny, WARM Spring weather.  Instead, I am sitting here with an electrtic heater trying to warm up....my poor fingers having difficulty getting from key to key from being chilled, and looking out to a dark and dreary day...NO SUN!

Our "weathers" have certainly been unkind to all of us....throughout our country and beyond....so it falls on all of us to replace the unkindness of the weather with our own kindness.

It falls upon us to be the warmth and the sun, bringing joy and hope to those who will pass through our day...TODAY!

I wish you the courage and grace to be that WARMTH, BRIGHTNESS, JOY AND HOPE we so need.

BLESSINGS........

Friday, May 31, 2013

Mary visits Elizabeth

Today we celebrate, commemorate Mary's visit to her elder cousin, Elizabeth, who was expecting.  We note how thoughtful Mary was.  When the angel told her that her cousin, Elizabeth, in her old age, was pregnant, and quite pregnant, Mary decided to go help her.  Then, too, I can imagine her asking all kinds of questions, getting the help she would need as she began her pregnancy.

In one of my reflection books, it quotes Elizabeth: and how does it happen to me that the mother of my Lord should come to me?

It is not the same as our "Why me?"  "How could this happen to ME?" attitude.

Elizabeth is in awe and wonder....and grateful.  The lesson for us?  Be alert and aware of the events, the surprises, the unexpecteds, the other than usual and be in awe.  Be in wonder.  Be grateful.

Now....IF I can only remember!

Friday, May 17, 2013

3 and 3

Wow....how time flies!  I have not been here for a while...but have good excuses!  Meetings...meetings. And of course I am one of those "odd" ones that actually likes meetings....being an extrovert I enjoy being with all those people again and catching up.

My last two meetings were about VOCATIONS!  We, the SISTERS OF THE SORROWFUL MOTHER are sharing the boat of few women choosing our way of life...consecrated life of commitment to God, to service in the Church...to God's people.  So....we need to meet and talk about who we are and how can we make our life and our community known....and how can we INVITE women to listen and follow through SHOULD God be inviting them to this life.  Exciting!  Challenging!

So, how about YOU?  Have you by any chance experiened some kind of a NUDGE from the Lord?  Do you sometimes have an attraction to life as a SISTER?  If so...what are you waiting for?

Check out:  www.youtube.com/ssmsisters; www.flickr.com/photos/ssmsisters/sets; www.becomingasister.org; www.motherfrancesstreitel.org; www.facrbook.com/sistersofthesorrowfulmother.   WOW!  lots to acquaint you with us.

Whatever/whereever God is calling you....may you be blessed with peace and happiness.

Sunday, May 5, 2013

Something strang in the sky...the SUN!

Yes, we finally have a sunny day!  PRAISE GOD!!!!!  As I said before: it's amazing what a little bit of SUN can do for your attitude.

I just want to share with you the source of my reflection this morning.  As is sometimes the case, we can read something that SEEMS so new, yet we have heard it, read it LOTS of times.  I think this is true for me of this passage:  Isaiah 41:8-10 (I think).

"...you whom I have taken from the ends of the earth, and summoned from its far-off places, to whom I have said, YOU ARE MY SERVANT.  I CHOSE YOU...DO NOT FEAR.  I AM WITH YOU.  DO NOT BE ANXIOUS, I AM YOUR GOD.  I WILL STRENGTHEN YOU.  I WILL HELP YOU.  I WILL UPHOLD YOU WITH MY VICTORIOUS HAND."

Is that not POWERFUL?  Is that not HOPEFUL?  Is that not ENCOURAGING?

"...summoned me from far-off places..."  I just had to chuckle.  Here I am in Wisconsin...summoned from New Mexico, truly a "far off place"!  CHOSEN!  and by GOD!  Truly, how can I doubt?  How can I fear, worry, be anxious?

Thank you, God! 

Sunday, April 28, 2013

Grateful! Joyful!

I am greatly grateful and full of joy after having attended a retirement party at Sacred Heart School of Theology where I was Associate Director of Human and Spiritual Formation for nine years.  I left when my community asked me to go to the Dominican Republic.

This was the most diffiult "obedience" I ever had!  There were LOTS of tears!  I loved my ministry at this seminary for second career men...men who were career men, who had been married, widowed, divorced and some single.  They were a wonderful bunch to work with.

I was invited to the retirement Vespers and dinner for three of my former faculty "buddies".  It was wonderful to go back, to visit and catch up.  It was such a "shot in the arm for me.  Both faculty and students happy to see me and let me know how I am missed. 

How we all need this kind of a message, this kind of encouragement.  Most of the tme it is just "business as usual".  We need to remember how important it is to praise, to pat on the back, to encourage, to affirm. 

Let's you and I start an epidemic of this!

Thursday, April 18, 2013

Rain, rain, go away....

We have had rain for days, now....overcast, foggy, terrible driving.  Then for a treat, just to let us know of its presence....out theer...the sun peeks, literally peeks.  Hope in the midst of darkness!  Light at the end of the tunnel?  Sun at the end of these dreary days.  It is amazing how the weather can impact you.  LikeI told one of my friends at work:  We have to be the sunshine!

Remember:  Yesterday is history.
                     Tomorrow is mystery.
                     Today is gift.
                     That is why it is alled the present.
                     Live and savor every moment....this is not a dress rehearsal.

Not sure where I read that, but it cerainly is great advice.

Sunday, April 14, 2013

Easter Fallout

I read a wonderful "Easter fallout"--(my naming)
We celebrate a broken Christ who makes us whole. 
We remember a poured out Christ who heals our wounds. 
We rejoice in a dying Christ who gives us life.

If that isn't good news!  That is so healing for me  And so life-giving.  What more could I want?  Except to share it and pass it on so others also experience the healing and the renewal of life.

I would  also like to share with you a wonderful online resource.  An old friend and his wife are the creators.  I had him at our parish for an Advent renewal evening.  He is wonderful  Go to
www.thefiveloaves.com.  It provides a brief but very creative reflection on the Sunday reading.
Enjoy it and I hope you find it renewing.


EASTER BLESSINGS......

Sunday, April 7, 2013

Provincial Assembly

Our entire US/Caribbean Province is gathered here in Oshkosh, WI. We have come from the east, the south, the midwest parts of the US and from Trinidad, Grenada, St. Lucia, the Dominican Republic.

What is a "provincial assembly"?  A gathering to plan for the next four years and to elect new leadership.  We have met for a week...and closed our assembly today. 

It has been wonderful to see all my sisters whom I have not seen for four years...to catch up with their lives, their ministries.  It is like a shot in the arm...lots to be abuzz about.

It was renewing to pray together...and in all the languages of the various parts of our Province....I did not understand some...but God did!

Now we return to our areas and our ministries renewed, with a song in our hearts and a skip to our comings and goings.

I thank God for each and everyone of us...what a gifted bunch.  I ask God's blessings for our next four years as we BEGIN ANEW!

Friday, March 29, 2013

Holy THursday

I find such wonderful reflections, that I just need to pass them on.  They may move you as they do me.

THe title:  Freedom, Bread and WIne, a Towel:

Freedom:  Jesus frees us in his new Passover. 
Reflect:  How free am I?  Is there anyting that still enslaves me:  an addiction, self-centeredness, bitterness, consumerism, pride?

Bread and Wine:  transformed into Jesus' body and blood, Eucharist.
Reflect:  How do I show my appreciation and love for this incredible gift?

Towel:  in his washing of feet, Jesus showed us that the hallmark of Christian discipleship is humble service and unconditional love.
Reflect: Who needs MY unconditional love? Who might I serve?  We don our aprons in loving service....

From  This Day

Who am I at the table of the Lord?

This was the title in my reflection book for Tuesday.  I  found the questions worth sharing.

When Jesus announced someone would betray him: would I be like the disciples, staring wide-eyed, open-mouthed, not knowing what to say?  Would I be like John, collapsed in grief, laying my head sadly on his bosom?  Would I be like Peter, promising loyaly even to death?  Would I possibly be like Judas, taking the morsel Jesus offers as a last gesture of LOVE....then go out into the dark to do my dark act?

The author suggests that each character represents some defect in our lives...times we ought to have spoken up and times to be silent....times so bound up in my own pain and so failed to see the pain of the other...times I have betrayed the love of Christ in my weakness and failed to be a real disciple.

Good reflection stuff....

Favorite days....

The Triduum is my favorite 3 days.  It goes way back 60+ years from my childhood.  I loved Holy Thursday (when litugy was in the moring--pre-Varican II).  After Mass we had adoration ALL day at a beautifully decorated altar of repose.  THis is where my love and devotion to the Blessed Sacrament birthed, I think.

Then...my dad was a member of the "Hermanos" a men's group dedicated to the passion of Jesus.  They had small private chapels...ours was up in the mountains.  On Good Friday we went there for prayer and for outside Way of the Cross.  Lots of praying and singing and carrying a cross.

Holy Saturday was a quiet day of mourning....no playing or visiting!

Then in community, we had these days of silence. 

Since I don't know when, I go for a Triduum retreat.  This year I could not go because I need to be here for my ministry....four are joinng the Church, one is being confirmed, and one is receiving first eucharist...so I am making my own triduum retreat.  Prayer and silence.

I pray these holy days are truly holy for you too.

Friday, March 15, 2013

Pope Fancis I

I'm only one of the many who are rejoicing at the election of pope Francis.  As of now all is praise and thanks.  Time will tell how much of that continues as he begins to say and do things with which we disagree.  That is bound to come...when the "honeymoon" ends!  We need to keep him in our prayers for he has a difficult ministry, especially because of where we are in our Church. 

In my reflection yesterday, I ran into "The Parable of a Pencil" which I think is wonderful, so I want to share it with you.

A pencil maker tells a pencil that it must learn important lessons before he puts it in the box.  "First" he said "remember that everything you do will leave a mark--either good or bad.  But you can always correct the mistakes you make, because that's what an eraser is for.  What is important is not the outer mark you make in the world, but what is inside of you.  It's not just lead you know.  It is your hopes and dreams, your values and goals--and it is all enclosed in a protective case that will keep you from
breaking.  Keep in mind, though, you will need to be constantly sharpened, but this will only make you better.  And last, to be the best penil, you must allow yourself to be guided by the hand that holds you."   

Isn't that the best?  Such lessons to be drawn from this to apply to life.  Good luck....let's see how much we can remember and DO!

Thursday, March 7, 2013

Greetings from Tulsa!

Yes, Tulsa, where I am enjoying very different temps from Milwaukee!  Beautifully sunny, green grass, green bushes....much Spring in the air.  But, back to WI reality later today.

I would like to share from my reflection in "Give us This Day" by Lewis Smedes writng on forgive-ness.  I'm sure you have had the experience of holding on to hurts, actually nursing them, finding it so difficult to let go, to forgive.

AND....you and I know that WE are the ones hurting, suffering, being miserable.  The "hurter"  totally oblivious is enjoying life, going along "free"...and we blasted in pain....self-made, at that.  If only we could just see the sense of it all, actually the stupidity of it all....making myself miserable.  Sound familiar?

Lewis says "forgiving is the only way to be fair to yourself.  Getting even is a loser's game.  It is the ultimate frustration because it leaves you with more pan than you got in the first place...Your own memory is a replay of your hurt--a videotape within your soul that plays unending retuns of your old rendezvous with pain...You are hooked into it like a pain junkie; you become addicted to your remembrance of pain past...Is this fair to yourself-this wretched justice of not forgiving? You could not be more unfair to yourself...

The only way to heal the pain that will not heal itself is to forgive the person who hurt you... forgiving stops the reruns of pain.  Forgiving heals your memory as you change your memory's vision.

When you release the wrongdoer from the wrong, you cut a malignant tumor out of your inner life.
You set a prinsoner free, but you discover that the real prisoner was yourself."

Did you recognize yourself?  I surely did! 

What words of wisdom....now to take them to heart...and do them....tough, but the way to go!

LENTEN BLESSINGS...

Friday, March 1, 2013

Cannot believe it.....

Right!  I cannot believe that I've been away so long....just too little time for the too many things and places and people!

So much has happened, I could not begin to list, but am glad I am back.  Here in Milwaukee we have been "enjoying" snow!  Truly.  We have had LOTS, but God's work of art is magnificent. I love the trees, the bushes, espeially the leafless trees when they are snow-laden.  It is truly breathtaking. 

My route to work has trees on both sides of the road and it is just a magnificence.  I cannot help but be filled with praise and gratitude for the beauty....yet I have to make sure I don't slip and slide!

And LENT!  Not given...lent to us for prayer, fasting, and works of charity...all in preparation for the BIG EVENT. 

"Return to God with all your heart"...genuinely.  Reconcile.  Seek forgiveness. 

What aspects of my life and my attitudes need to be restored in line with Gospel values?  Lent is a period of spiritual recovery.

I wish you recovery! 

Monday, February 4, 2013

Celebrating CONSECRATED LIFE DAY

Feb. 2/3 weekend was CONSECRATED LIFE DAY.  The world, hopefully, REMEMBERED, although I know the majority of the local parishes did not...no mention, whatsoever, BUT...not at St. Anthony the Hermit Parish, Menomonee Falls, WI where I work.

I had an explanation of this vocation in the bulletin.  I also asked the pastor, who readily gave his ok, if we could have renewal of vows at all the Masses.

It was a wonderful experience!  At the Sat. 4:30 Mass, Sister from school joined me, as together we renewed our vows.  At the Sunday, 8:00 o'clock, I renewed by myself.  I was taken aback at one point at how I was touched and moved...almost tears!  At the 10:30 Mass, one of the sisters with whom I live joined me.

I have not seen such attention and quiet!  I think this may have been a first for many people. 

I pray that this "event" may touch those whom God is calling to follow him in this way of life.

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Consecrated Life Day

In 1997, Pope Paul ( I think)...anyway, the Pope, wanted CONSECRATED LIFE to be recognized, celebrated, so he designated Feb 2nd as the day to commemorate CONSECRATED LIFE.  What is CL?

It's what we used to refer to as RELIGIOUS LIFE, but, don't we all live a religious life?  We do, if we  go to Mass, pray, do works of kindness, and such.  So it has been renamed to consecrated life to describe the life of those of us who commit our lives to God via our vows....celibate chastity, poverty, and obedience....turn over our lives to the service of God and of the Church (the people of God) and live a life of prayer, community, and service.

Today we no longer do service just in education and health care.  You find us all over the world and in diverse ministries.  We still are in education and healthcare, but you can find  us in...name it ....there we are!  Here in rhe U.S. and in numerous countries....doing what Jesus did, trying to fill his shoes, trying to bring him and his Good News to all peoples, regardless of race, color, beliefs, orientation, rich, poor, etc....all are God's!   And deserve to have the good news of Jesus shared.

We, human as we are, with our own pluses and minuses, spend ourselves for Jesus, in love.  We may not be perfect, but we do our best...and that is all that counts!  If we fall....we get up and start over and over and over....perseverance in hope!

I just wish we had more of us to go around!  We could reach so many more....

How about you?  Could the Lord be inviting you to join us in this marvelous CONSECRATED
WAY OF LIFE?  Why not YOU?

Friday, January 25, 2013

Home again, home again, jiggedy jig

I was gone, have been out of state.  Had great plans to blog, but too busy a schedule.  I actually felt guilty for not getting to it.  Imagine that!  So now I am back to cold WI.

It is late afternoon and I am struck by the STILLNESS, the QUIET.  There is a serenity and peace about winter. Am not sure I had ever taken notice.  Perhaps this STILLNESS is a message from God for me.  Perhaps it is God's call to me to take time for STILLNESS.

 I am a great believer in signs and in how God "messages" us via the common ordinary "stuff of life". 

Haven't you exerienced it also?  You're in Walgreen's and pass by the cards...out of the blue there is a card that just stands out...and WOW!  the message on that card speaks directly to ME. 

You're driving along with the radio on...a song that is just aimed at you!

The homily....how did Father know? Seems like he is speaking JUST TO ME.

For me, I truly believe such experiences are God trying to get through to me with something I need to hear.

I consider these: "little miracles"...

I wish you "LITTLE MIRACLES"...   

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

National Vocation Awareness Week

This is the week to "be aware" of vocations.  It strikes me funny...of course we are "aware" of vocations.  We see them daily:  the married, the single, priests, religious brothers and sisters, (or nuns, as they sometimes call us).

VOCATION:  a call from God to love and serve in specific ways.  We are all called to live, love and serve, each in our unique ways as I noted above.  Some are called to live, love and serve in the single vocation.  Some are called as husband, wife, mother, father.  Some as ordained ministers.  And some of us are called to live the consecrated life as brothers and sisters.

It is a tough job to know clearly where God calls.  Therefore, I believe prayer is of the utmost importance and help.  Discerning where I will be truly happy.  Where I will become the best me I can be.  Where I can use my giftedness to the utmost.  Where I can truly make a difference. And...which life kind of grabs me...which one seems to have a special attraction for me.

If you are in that place in your life wondering where God is calling you, try reflecting on these  questions....and you may want to find someone with whom you can discuss this whole VOCATION-CALL.

I wish you the Holy Spirit!  

The Baptism of Jesus

What a human thing for Jesus to have done...and humbling. He went through the "cleansing"!  And what proof that he was special...needed no "cleansing" when God was heard to express such satisfaction and pleasure with him, even identifying him as the SON!  How could there be any doubt as to who Jesus was-if this was indeed heard by the by-standers?

This is my beloved Son.  I am totally pleased with him!  What gift!  I reflect:  Could the Lord say the same of me:  "This is a daughter that I love dearly and I am so pleased with her."

What about you?

Saturday, January 12, 2013

National Vocaton Awareness Week

This is the week to be "aware of vocations".   I was in vocation ministry for years and observed "vocation awareness week" myriad times.  Yet for some odd reason this is the first time that "VOCATION AWARENSS WEEK" strikes me as ridiculous  To be "aware" of vocations. 

Vocations surround us. We are more than AWARE.  The married, the single, the priest, the nun. We are aware of them daily, at least of some.

We define a vocation as a calling, a call from God, a way of life, a way of living.  Something we are called to BE.  The job is the call to DO.

It has always amazed me how much time and money we spend on deciding and preparing for what we will DO when we grow up, but not that much attention, preparing, thinking and planning on what will I BE?  It seems to me this is backwards.

Coming to know God's call takes much prayer and discerning.  Finding my purpose for BEING is serious business.  No wonder it takes much prayer and discerning.

If you are searching for where God wants you, reflecting on the following questions may help.
1.   Which of these vocations carries a strong attraction for me?
2.   How do I feel when I envision myself living the single life, married, as a priest, living the
      consecrated life (a religious sister/brother)?
3.   Which life offers me the most possibilities to become the best me I can be?
4.   In which one would I be most happy and feel most fulfilled?
5.   In which one could I utilize my giftedness best?

Bring God into your reflection....listen with an open heart....with whom might you talk this over?

It's truly worth the time!  I wish you the wisdom of the Spirit.

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Following the Star

We just had "Little Christmas"--January 6th, the Three Kings....a most special feast for the Hispanic people...right up there with Christmas....exchange of gifts....following what the Three Kings did...shared gifts.

One question to ask ourselves:  What gifts did I bring to the newborn King this year?

Also these Wise Men followed the star...God's sign to them.  Do you keep alert for the "star"--the signs....insignificant as they may be....via which God leads you? 

Our three friends recognized the specialness of the child...in spite of it being JUST a baby. Do you recognize the Lord in those you meet....even when they are.....?

More reflection time needed, eh?  For me, yes!

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

A New Year: 2013

Imagine that!  Remember when we were turning 2000?  WOW!  That was the experience!  The fears! The worries!  And here we are 13 years later....still here!

In my prayer today all my reflections were suggesting REFLECT!  Even the priest suggested we take  some quiet time to sit and reflect on the past year and how we could approach 2013.

Did I strike gold! I receive a monthly article from Elizabeth-Anne Stewart.  This one was right on the button with the "REFLECT" strand.  I will share with you her reflection suggestions.

She suggests that we look back at the state of our world and see how we are responsible for the mayhem that surrounds us....asking ourselves:

1.   Are we stewards of the Earth's resources or is our demand for consumer goods fueling global
      warming?

2.   Are we peacemakers, or those who, holding anger tight, harbor grudges and resentmenrts?

3.   Do we work for justice or have we turned our back on the poor, the marginalized and those  
      without a voice?

4.   Do we speak out prophetically--or have we accepted the status quo because it is comfortable to do
      so?

Elizabeth-Anne Stewart suggests that this is the time to reflect on our roles as Christian (Catholic) global citizens.  Now is the time to make meaningful New Year's resolutions and KEEP them!  2013 is a blank slate, she says, reflect on how we can make it happier and better than the last.

I wish you successful prayerful reflection time....and a New Year filled with those BLESSINGS you most need to be the BEST person God calls you to be.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!